One of the greatest gift the Lord has given us is 'free choice' Every day we are presented with choices some good some bad. And when we do fall short of the Lord's good Grace He is so merciful that he forgives and forgets when we sincerely atone for our sins. But some people just don't learn from the first time and continue to live without discipline but to please their own self-indulgence regardless who gets hurts. Do right by others even when we are at our lowest we should never be alone.
That is why I live by the Golden Rule, "Do unto others as you would like them to do to you." At that deepest moment when we feel at our loneliest... We are not. Jesus was their all along. That is God's way of breaking people down who continue to be disobedient in order to reshape them from the original mold. The Potter is good even when we feel the heat. That is the heat remolding us back in His perfect image that we have stepped out of.